Five Psychological Tricks for Seducing Women


By Top10BestDatingSites Staff

There are no actual "tricks" that will help seduce women, but there are things that men can do to make women interested and keep them interested. Over the long haul, a guy who can keep a woman's interest is going to be able to build a really solid relationship. Therefore, following each of these steps will bring a guy to a place where he's got a woman interested in him, wanting to know more and hopefully wanting to see more of him.

1. Be the Man

Guys who are not able to choose a location for a date, decide what to do or pay for a date are not going to get very far with any woman. Even the most understanding woman in the world can only forgive indecisiveness and frugality for so long. Rather than being a guy who can't seem to make a decision, tell ladies that they're going to a specific place for dinner and then another specific place for coffee. Pay for the date and set a specific time to pick her up. Taking charge of dates and showing an ability to plan and make decisions is important to women.

2. Make Eye Contact

Women want to make eye contact with the man they're talking to. It isn't enough to have something to say. Looking her in the eye makes a connection that cannot be undone.

3. Open Up

After making eye contact, it is best to be willing to reveal subtle details to a woman that reveal more than just common likes and dislikes. While women want to have stimulating conversation, they also want a man to be willing to be vulnerable. This does not mean that guys have to tell a woman their life story on the first date, but a woman that knows some personal details about a man is going to feel more connected to him and want to hear more.

4. Give Her Space

Women don't want to be chased. Women want to be desired. Women know when a man desires them, but are turned off when a man is all over them. It's alright to talk to a love interest on a regular basis, but giving her some space to be herself, go out with friends and be alone is alright, as well. When a woman is allowed to be herself she feels respected and loved. Smothering her only makes her want more space.

5. Hear Her Concerns

Women voice their concerns about a man's appearance or lifestyle because they care. It is unfair to assume that is woman is trying to mother a man simply because she is making loving and constructive comments about his lifestyle. Hearing a woman's genuine concern and acknowledging how loving it is will make her more interested than ever before.

When women feel heard, understood and respected, they will be around to stay.

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